Katie Harper - a Wonderful Family Member!
(November 7, 1928 - April 2, 2021)
Katie Harper passed away
yesterday after a long, meaningful life. I am very sad at hearing
When I joined my wife's family,
Family Reunions were a big thing for her and the children. At first, I
didn't understand why they were so important!
Over time I learned of how many
family members, cared very much for their kin.
In my (white) family, there is little that ties me to my cousins and other
relatives. Much of my wife’s (mostly) Black
Family have met annually, the first August weekend, for around 56 consecutive years,
as well as on Zoom in 2020.
I remember first meeting Katie,
though I don’t remember how long ago it was.
She was smiling and inviting. I came over to the bid whist table. I didn't know how to play. She taught me. Being warmly accepted by
someone I didn’t know at all was very new to me.
At first Katie was one of the “old
people” there. Over the coming years, as
her peers died, she remained with remarkable energy and a warm acceptance of
all that were her family. She, of
course, knew everyone and knew quite a bit about nearly everyone.
Her children and grandchildren and great-grandchildren all loved her and she them. Her love went beyond her branch of the family, showing a lot of interest in all of us.
Over the past few years, I would wonder each year if
Katie would be able to make it, and she was always there. She went to bed a
little earlier, but her spirit and energy was always there.
She didn’t complain (to me at
least) about all that she went through, The water crisis in Flint, Michigan,
where she lived, must have troubled her much more than she let on. Katie didn’t complain
about the (evident) pain that came with her aging. She was always upbeat. She was also honest in disagreeing politely, when she didn't agree.
Katie always seemed to love being with all of us. We also loved having her there.
I’m sad at hearing of Katie’s death! I hope that all who loved her will remember her with their own warm memories. I’m sure that they will!
Katie – we will all remember you – this August
especially – but also throughout the rest of our lives. Thank you!
April 10, 2021 - The Memorial Service